Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Oh Poor Men and Cambodian Wives

After reading one news mentioning that "Over the past four years, some 2,500 women have wedded South Korean men", and make me interested to continue my reading.


"On poor man" ... just repeat in my mind... "You buy your wife"... it's interesting based on the issue how the South Korean Men bought wives from Cambodian. Report says "The grooms, mostly factory workers and farmers, have trouble finding wives in South Korea because they are low-income earners"


Keep silence for a while and think "How South Korean Men are suffering to get a wife with their low income"... I don't know how much it cost or how much they need to have to get a Korean wife. But it seems to me that it's not a real family life but rather money-oriented and can not be last long when all the wealth has gone.


On the other hand, it's not free service but "Potential grooms reportedly pay brokers up to US $20,000, the IOM report says. The bride's family receives at most $1,000" report says and "Kim In-Kook, a South Korean embassy official, confirmed that the number of marriage visas issued to Cambodian brides soared from 72 in 2004 to 1,759 last year"


With this increase numbers, most Cambodian young girls are attracted by promises of high living standards and money in their late teens and early 20s.

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Wednesday, March 19, 2008

What Things Make You Happen?

Just to share what i've got from other source and hope you will like it too as i am!

Three things in life that, once gone, never come back

1. Time
2. Words
3. Opportunity

Three things in life that can destroy a person

1. Anger
2. Pride
3. Unforgiveness

Three things in life that you should never lose

1. Hope
2. Peace
3. Honesty

Three things in life that are most valuable

1. Love
2. Family & Friends
3. Kindness

Three things in life that are never certain

1. Fortune
2. Success
3. Dreams

Three things that make a person

1. Commitment
2. Sincerity
3. Hard work

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Tuesday, March 11, 2008

I was On the News of Prweb.com

Buddies,
Greetings!

You might forget or unrealize that i was on Prweb.com mentiong about my current job as Affiliate with Travel Meta Search and other commission partners in this fields. What's Prweb.com?


It's " PRWeb, a leader in online news and press release distribution, has been used by more than 40,000 organizations of all sizes to increase the visibility of their news, improve their search engine rankings and drive traffic to their Web site. ".....


To expend a wider market in this travel fields, my current company is proud to be there and of course myself as we are one of the biggest in Asia.


News mentioned that " "Affiliates for AsiaTiv can potentially earn a nice income," says Elias Maung, Affiliate Manager for AsiaTiv. "When they sign up they are given access to our state of the art technology and multi-tier system. They have a great opportunity to earn money."


Thousands of people are traveling daily around the world and most of Europeans and Latin Americans are heading to Asia where they can find cheaper price and saving cost. Even they can have a better chance of work, earning and family life.

For this part of reason, hope travel business will do a great deal and will share you out more if there is a chance. Cheers!

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Saturday, March 08, 2008

Is there Life before Death?

By Nhkum Gum

Previously, I worked as a teacher and I was caught up with teaching in class because it gave me satisfaction and joy. I enjoy time with students. I almost forgot hardship and anxiety for living. When the students passed the exams and they paid respect to me, I was happy for their success. Since a college student, I wanted good education and broaden knowledge. The more I explored for my passions for them, the more disappointed I felt about them. So, I myself go with the flow indulging myself and avoiding my inner call. I escaped the call of my desire with my busy routine. I did not think about which way I would be living before death. Most of my days were just hoping something forward for each better day. I did not listen to my desire because it could be impossible to think beyond prescribed education in my country. Besides, many graduated students became trishaw drivers or vendors.


Again, I was curious to observe my future. So, I made up my mind to change my job. I got a job as a computer technician when I graduated with computer course. With a new job, I learned practical skills at work and granted broad views of the computer field. Giving full attention and services to customers was important. I realized that my daily routine was repeating itself and quite different from my previous job. The functions of a technician were less creative than teaching even though both goals were giving satisfaction to the customers. But sometimes I found my teaching skills were effective in the computer job while I dealt with the customers about technical maintenances because the customers could do some parts of maintenance. It would save a lot of money. During those days, repetition at work made me bored and depressed to go to work every day. I was carrying as a lifeless body and going to an aimless direction because the job gave me no pleasure and it did not require much my own creative idea. It was just a looping routine for my own survival. I worked for a survival and struggled with a merely extra income to be able to pass each day. I could not almost have time to think about what I wanted and what I desired for my living. I wondered when that tiresome and aimless routine might end but worried that it would come before death.


These livings always ended without attachment at all. I just followed where I should belong according to my school degree. I chose jobs accordingly based on the degree. When I became a technician, I felt that I was isolated from the desire I dreamed. I just followed without knowing my own call of living. So, I was struggling with inconvenience when I faced difficulties at work I could easily give up for them. The job seemed distanced from my true feeling for my living. I did not feel that I knew what I was doing. I only expected that I needed to live better and survive well. I assumed that it was the only way of living before death. So, I ignored my feeling of living with compassion and attachment.


Now I realize that there are many things beyond my needs. They can not satisfy me but I lost almost a real meaning of living without knowing my desire. I sense that I need to open my mind even death would come anytime but rejoice it with satisfaction of the ways I have lived. I should grow my desire. I will follow my own and unique call of living before death. I start changing for a new life as an open minded person. I sense that I am not afraid of questioning myself. I will devote myself to deepen my call. I will sacrifice to lessen my self interests but experience of a profound way of living and project myself for building my society for a better place. It is where I belong to and appreciate experiences of living. It is the way I would like to live before my death.


Thank you "Nhkum Gum" for sharing his life review for my blog reader!

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Wednesday, March 05, 2008

I just sleep on this post before!

It takes me sometime to make decision to write this post and i was sleeping on it since a few weeks ago. Even got a chance to talk with my friend and asked me "Why don't you post on your blog?". Sure it's just a snap! Let me handle it out.

You know what? I heard many times that people speak a lot and huge but it doesn't make sense at last. Guess it!

Just give me one example here: I met one of my friends on the way when i was rusing to my evening class after the whole day of office work and spending one hr in a terrible traffic, he said "Hi, Hav you finished your dinner?", Me: "No time for dinner yet, coz i just arrive and class began already"....


Then we continue some small talk for a few minutes; Me "Where'r u goin?"... Fri "Going to send something to my friend" .... Me "I c, Is not late to send this time?".. Fri "Um, it's a bit far from here, but i was busy for my study"...


You know why he is busy with just 2/3 subjects evening classes 6:30 - 9:30 pm? No idea for me. As far as i know, if a student goes for evening class, means they have the whole day and night of time except 2-3 classes in a week.


Unless a student is working in weekdays, how can we understand he/she is busy with study. Sure, someone will says "Don't you know everyone is busy for their own?" Of course i agree that you all are busy. But busy for what?


Even someone study for 3 subjects which is 9 hrs in a week coz mostly evening classes are 3 hrs. So in 7 days a week, there is 7 x 24 =168 hrs and 168 - 9= 159 hrs are spare time for your hobby, activities, meal and sleeping if you don't work.


And another one will says "That's non of your business to say"...Ok...fine... But this is positive view of post why most of the people, especially my colleagues (students) who speak a lot and huge about their study and busy.. boosy... busi....


You can see their status in Gtalk "Pls leave message, i have exam"..."I'm doing project"... So what? How a bout for students who is working and studying? Do they have more time? And do you hear that they say like you? Even if they say " I am busi " be sure that working and studying guy will be more busy than you. You might not notice unless you are in the field.


In group project, one will say "Hi all friends, i can not come to see you...... i have final exam.... i have final project..... sorry.. thank you for your help.... ".... Help what? You dare to write this email to your friends... Ya?


Look, sometime, "Too much time is not enough to do small thing"... If there is only one day left to finish assignment, rusing to step on it and finish up but if Lecturer postpone to another week, then still very limited time and say "I am bosi, hav final project....etc..." ....


Becareful when you choose your group in doing group project :P Student with 159 hrs extra time will say first "He/she is Too Busy for study, exam and project"...

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